Now the 13-year NFL veteran playing for the Carolina Panthers can add book author to that, as well.
Along with writer Sean Jensen, Tillman recently released, The Middle School Rules of Charles “Peanut” Tillman, a book that helps kids deal with difficult things and uses examples of what Tillman went through during his childhood. He tells stories about dealing with racism, coping with his parent’s divorce, standing up to bullies, and other things that children can relate to in today’s world.
“I hope people’s kids, in the third to eighth grade, can identify with some of the problems that I dealt with as a kid, to let kids know that they are not alone,” Tillman told Sports Spectrum. “I wasn’t always Charles Tillman the All-Pro football player. I used to be Charles Tillman the kid who didn’t know how to write in cursive, the kid who didn’t know how to do division, the kid who didn’t know how to deal with death. I was Charles Tillman who didn’t really understand divorce. I was Charles Tillman sticking up for my cousin because she was getting bullied. There were a lot of stories before I came to be this football player. There are kids out there that are currently going through a situation, and they can relate to what I am talking about in this book.”
His life experiences that have helped children who have read his book didn’t stop after the last page was turned, he earned his masters degree in Homeland Security and hopes people will see that age shouldn’t deter someone from bettering themselves academically.
“You’re never too old to learn something,” he said. “Later in life I felt I was getting dumb, so I started reading more, and I had this hunger for knowledge.”
He had an undergrad degree in criminal justice because that subject intrigued him, so getting a masters degree in Homeland Security made sense.
Living out his faith, though, is likely the greatest example he can give to others. He’s been able to do that through the Charles Tillman Cornerstone Foundation, which has been providing opportunities for needy and chronically ill children and their families since 2005.
In 2008, his daughter, Tiana, was diagnosed with cardiomyopathy and needed a heart transplant. Through that ordeal, Tillman saw how others gave back to him and his family.
“When Tiana got a heart transplant, the donor family made a selfless choice, she gave her son’s heart to my daughter,” Tillman said.
From there, his mission of helping others through and outside of his foundation was deepened.
“I wanted to help other people,” he said. “I wanted to help as many people as I could.”
Although he and his wife, Jackie, had been serving people through the foundation and in everyday life, they never really thought about it like that.
“You talk about Jesus, how He served his disciples, how He washed their feet. I look back at that, not knowing when I started this foundation, I really didn’t know what I was doing,” said Tillman, who, along with his wife, has three other children, Tyson, Talia and Tess. “It wasn’t too long that I was in a church service or a chapel service, the pastor starts off with the Last Supper, how Jesus served His disciples, and it really was getting me thinking, “Wow! My wife and I have been serving people this whole time, and that was probably one of (Jesus’) biggest things: we have to love and serve each other. I didn’t even know it and was doing it anyway. Oh man, it just gave me chills.
“God has blessed me in more ways than I can imagine…Hey man, I’m here to serve. People have been serving me and blessing me and giving me awesome advice when I did dumb things when I was a kid, and they kept me on this path, and I’m trying to do the same thing now with my kids, with other people’s kids. I’m just trying to help and serve as best I can.”
By Brett Honeycutt